tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1565986370642716463.post1250170510246453848..comments2023-08-21T08:17:09.946-04:00Comments on Sugar and Cyanide: things you never knew about me (and never asked to know)Texan Zombie Goddesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09067779800849679835noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1565986370642716463.post-72407305538898257072012-08-04T17:19:42.318-04:002012-08-04T17:19:42.318-04:00Oh honey, sometimes you gotta get this shit out. D...Oh honey, sometimes you gotta get this shit out. Don"t ever wait to be asked. Unleashed pain will fester like a wound...and it almost always takes a lot more than once to heal those nasty things.<br /><br />As far as embracing anything, embrace yourself first. Divinity is always there and only wants for you to live whatever life is right for you. You know we are all just humans living in this physical world and doing the best we can. Hugs, sweetie.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1565986370642716463.post-370237419190562292012-07-23T01:38:57.747-04:002012-07-23T01:38:57.747-04:00I agree with all of the above. I remember trying ...I agree with all of the above. I remember trying to use the bathroom and the kids slipping sheets of paper under the door. It was anything from exams they had taken to parent consent forms. I couldn’t use the toilet in peace. <br /><br />I’m divorced and didn’t make it to the 20 year mark but some of my friends have so I think I understand. My friend, Lorenzo, once told me (he’s married 25 years) that when he first married they made love – a lot. And after 25 years, they f*ck – a lot more; he says the difference is because they’re already secure in that they love each other. This keeps it going and he says that the occasional spanking in the bedroom also helps (he didn’t say but between you and me, I think he’s the one getting spanked). <br /><br />Like I said, I’m divorced and I don’t have a boyfriend, not even an interested admirer. So when I see all these couples getting kissy-faced, I hate – a lot and mutter lots of nasty things about them under my breath!<br /><br />Try not to label yourself when it comes to religion. Perhaps you’re a very spiritual person and that encompasses all religions. About the phobias – everyone fears something, so don’t worry. At least you have the courage to talk about it.Carmen Espositohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11607902019308543672noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1565986370642716463.post-84934327866764298712012-07-22T17:46:11.154-04:002012-07-22T17:46:11.154-04:00i am not a fan of semi trucks after I hydroplane a...i am not a fan of semi trucks after I hydroplane almost under one. As for the religion cross roads I think everyone has been there just takes time and faith to find the right path. Depressed is part of life. Life is alot like a roller coaster you have your ups and downs...most of mine seems to be stuck in the stupid loops. I have yet to figure out how to have one that just goes straight...but at least I haven't wanted to bail out yet. I hope things start looking better for you hun.<br /><br />Word of the wise avoid the zombie flick the descendants...totally sucks.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00239549305651230543noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1565986370642716463.post-31667100833567873812012-07-21T11:51:06.906-04:002012-07-21T11:51:06.906-04:00I agree with Magaly....it is life and it does suck...I agree with Magaly....it is life and it does suck and you are brave to let it out. I'm 60 something and it has taken me many, many years to allow myself to be authentic. Before that I did because I had to....don't do what I did. Get it out, and when you can, let it go.<br />And about the parental abuse....I can say I understand. It keeps us trapped in feeling like we are undeserving and that ain't so Ms. Zombie. Take life, shake the shit out of it and live it....your way. Give it a go, you'll like it.<br />Oma LindaOmaLindasOldeBaggsandStuftShirtshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09589622524456973822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1565986370642716463.post-50356117977848069882012-07-21T11:18:08.192-04:002012-07-21T11:18:08.192-04:00Wanna know something else?
I'm afraid of semi...Wanna know something else?<br /><br />I'm afraid of semi-trucks too lol. I hate driving next to them in any way. Didn't stop me from driving, but I get where your friend is coming from ;).<br /><br />Thanks for putting up with me love.<br /><br />\IiiITexan Zombie Goddesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09067779800849679835noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1565986370642716463.post-66639065319205368152012-07-21T07:04:56.553-04:002012-07-21T07:04:56.553-04:00I don't think you are bitching. On the contrar...I don't think you are bitching. On the contrary, I think--and I'm no expert, but I think it anyway--that sharing all this is brave and necessary for many reasons: 1) because it gets some of the nastiness out, even if just a tiny bit 2) sharing will let you see that your phobias aren't stupid. I know someone who has never learned how to drive because he is afraid of semi-trucks driving next to him (he has no foundation for the fear) 3) sharing shows you that you are not alone and encourages other people to share their own bits. You are not the only one who lives dying to do the thing that might damage their lives most; trust me, I know. And for some of us our urges are not as 'benign' as yours (yes, it is total suckage--I don't care if that is not a word lol)<br /><br />And about God and Wiccan-ness, well... what can I say? At one point in my life I had too many questions that couldn't be answer by any organized spiritual path. I took many steps back and looked at them from afar, the distance made me realize that embracing a particular path didn't really matter, for the Divine knows exactly what lives within. <br /><br />Hugs my dear friend. And you are not depressive, you are alive. And don't try to argue with this last bit, or I might let my urges take a hold of my control and allow myself to smack you on the back of the head. Like I said, not very benign ;-)Magaly Guerrerohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18295455026184103230noreply@blogger.com